No advice, as I loathe dating, (here's some advice: DON'T.) But I can ramble pointlessly.

My last date was 15 years ago. It was doomed before it began. He wanted to go see a movie - while that in itself wasn't a problem, I let him pick. I forget what we had to choose from, but I'm reasonably certain every other choice would have been better.

This is the movie he chose.

Uh...huh...

Yeah, it wasn't because of a 'bad movie'. It was because we were incompatible on so many levels.

Our friends had been angling to get us together for a while and I was the holdout, because while I adored the guy as a friend, I really wasn't sure if there was anything there beyond that. A few dates proved to me that there wasn't, and that I should have trusted my gut.



If you are unhappy in a relationship, why would you do that to yourself? It ain't worth it. I'm not saying flee at the first signs of trouble, but sticking with something when you're not happy to begin with is foolish.




I never dated again mainly because I was content to remain single, partially because I had no time for a social life nor an interest for one to begin with, not because I'm gun shy.

Also if you were a woman that lived in this area, chances are you'd prefer the single life as well. The one friend of mine that's married is only married because she met a man on the internet (on a forum for a now-defunct webcomic, not a dating site) and moved to the states.

I know we're all scum that even the BSN didn't want, so I understand how you'd think that was a safe assumption. Unfortunately(?) it's an inaccurate one.

A year is a long time to spend with someone who isn't right for you.  I mean I'm still angry that I read all of 50 Shades of Grey and that only took like 5 hours.  Still it's 5 hours of my life that I can never get back and all of it was terrible.  Can you imagine spending a year that way?  Sometimes after a date a two you know it's not going to work out.  It's good to know enough abut yourself to be able to recognize that you're better off without something.  Kaiser, I'm sure you deserve better than a literal ball buster. You can and should be picky with whom you date.  You're worth it. 

And I have to agree with Shepenwepet that The Animal just isn't a good sign for lasting happiness.  Hah... penis.

I actually really regret letting my college relationship go on for 18 months longer than it should have.  I was scared if I broke it off we'd never see each other again.  And you know what?  We don't and it's fine.  He was a terrible, terrible boyfriend and it's a shame I suffered through that terrible relationship as long as I did to get to exactly the same point.  If I'd called it off when I should have it might have even ended on better terms where we could just slowly drift apart and never speak to each other instead of having a nuclear meltdown and never speaking to each other.

Junpei and Carlos are very hot in ZTD.

Also watch it with these kinds of posts.



Anyway as for me I have went on from Pokemon battles to Facebook friends with someone that I am still not yet sure if there is something there or not. Friendship for sure but eh I'm not good with online stuff like this.

Maybe I should take Sim's advice and invite her to join this forum.

After all he has been in a marriage for years and has like 8 kids who are all way better off than any of us will ever be.

#UndeadLivesMatter

Ahh... yes. That hilarious thing women like to do; keep a dude "in her back pocket."

LoLonlinedating