I've been in a relationship where it felt like I was the one in charge and I didn't like it at all. I like it when the man wears the pants in the relationship. Not like ordering me around and being bossy in charge but just being the one who has the last say on most things and decisions. I know I can be stubborn as hell, so I don't want to be able to get my way the entire time. That's no fun.

No idea on most men, but personally I feel a relationship should be equal parts give and take. I don't want anyone to submit to me, nor do I want to be the dude who meekly goes along with anything and everything his gf/wife says. I want a balance.

I see. I like being submissive with the man in charge I admit. Nothing in a demeaning way with me having no rights but I love following his lead and making him happy in every way possible. Do everything he wants.

Exactly this. Hell, even in a S&M relationship (sorry, I'm saying it) I want balance like that.

Interesting..

I would imagine by equal parts of course both parties would be working and bringing money to the table, yes? 

I dont want no freeloaders na mean? 

Well... that was unexpected. Very nice.

I assumed that would be your answer.

I wouldn't mind paying all the bills honest, and being the sole source of income. But then, my wife had BETTER be submissive with me, especially if we have no kids. 

I can understand that. I would want a woman who argues with me a lot. I like people who argue and aren't afraid to speak their mind.