Well for two reasons, one is like Dobby said, I would like him to know me well enough to know why I'm sad or upset and second is if he keeps pushing me for an answer.

When they try to rip my penis off, physically attack me, every conversation she turns into an argument ( how could you take "let's cuddle" as an argument?)...ranting

I've heard this before. There is just so much shit we can put up with. It's usually when we see that we aren't getting anything we want out of the relationship.

Hmmmmm I see. I just think it's weird how your minds works, you change it from one second to another.

The funny thing is we say the same for woman. lolz

Question to both. Who predicts this turning sourly into a us vs them?

Well, Here goes, To women, Why do you like being so dramatic all the times?

And also, To men, Why are you more defined by your hormonal needs than women?

I don't think I am defined by my hormonal needs. I grew up with a strong Christian background(Atheist now), but I still hold onto sex after marriage for myself personally.

There's a common thread running through all of the conflict and drama lately. It's not hard to spot it.

I don't know what planet you come from, but the planet where I live on, the chicks usually give up (emotionally) long before the guy actually gives up.

The thing is, women are often too chickenshit to actually do the breaking up, so they usually just mentally and emotionally give up, stop taking care of their boyfriend and basically turn into a bitter cold bitch until the man finally decides he no longer can put up with her shit and dumps her.

In some cases, if the man takes too long to break up, the chick might actually go as far as cheating on her man, some of them even are as bolt to cheat and then make sure her man finds out. One of my exes did that to me.