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Deleted I have made 0 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined January 1970	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 27, 2015 19:54:35 GMT -6 Post by Deleted on Dec 27, 2015 19:54:35 GMT -6 My girlfriend is so nice and wonderful to me. The problem is that she isn't the smartest or most interesting person in the world. She likes talking to me about things that I really think are insignificant and meaningless. I have no opinion on these things because I don't have any interest in them, never have. She's so nice to me, and I've never had that so I'm willing to make the change to hang on to it. I can work with nice. So my question is how do I get more interested in girly things like facebook, twitter, what other people are doing, what someone said about whoever, rumors, etc. Also, how do I stop getting frustrated about being asked the same question multiple times (ie: why do you love me, what would you do if we broke up) and being told I'm the one who never listens? How do I become more superficial and into things like that?
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ObserverStatus Banned for Spam Pathlessness, everywhere you look. Where is this all supposed to lead? I have made 3,181 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined August 2015 I've received 3,229 likes My gender is Male BSN Posts 18994	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 27, 2015 20:02:01 GMT -6 Post by ObserverStatus on Dec 27, 2015 20:02:01 GMT -6 Dec 27, 2015 19:54:35 GMT -6 @thebunz said: My girlfriend is so nice and wonderful to me. The problem is that she isn't the smartest or most interesting person in the world. She likes talking to me about things that I really think are insignificant and meaningless. I have no opinion on these things because I don't have any interest in them, never have. She's so nice to me, and I've never had that so I'm willing to make the change to hang on to it. I can work with nice. So my question is how do I get more interested in girly things like facebook, twitter, what other people are doing, what someone said about whoever, rumors, etc. Also, how do I stop getting frustrated about being asked the same question multiple times (ie: why do you love me, what would you do if we broke up) and being told I'm the one who never listens? How do I become more superficial and into things like that? I think your problem is, if you aren't having fun on facebook or twitter, you aren't using them right. You need to learn how to use social media platforms in a way that's fun for you. Try taking a look at a few videos on this guy's youtube channel. He offers great free lessons on how to make the most of social media.
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Deleted I have made 0 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined January 1970	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 27, 2015 20:12:18 GMT -6 Post by Deleted on Dec 27, 2015 20:12:18 GMT -6 No the question is how do I start giving a fuck about what other people are doing or what they think of me...It's so fucking stupid I know! I give no fucks about what people think of me or what they think about...ever. If I can't get reintegrated into superficial American society, I will have to break up with this girl and be back on the prowl for hot babes once again.
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Deleted I have made 0 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined January 1970	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 27, 2015 21:33:09 GMT -6 OneWomanArmy likes this Post by Deleted on Dec 27, 2015 21:33:09 GMT -6 Dec 27, 2015 19:54:35 GMT -6 @thebunz said: My girlfriend is so nice and wonderful to me. The problem is that she isn't the smartest or most interesting person in the world. She likes talking to me about things that I really think are insignificant and meaningless. I have no opinion on these things because I don't have any interest in them, never have. She's so nice to me, and I've never had that so I'm willing to make the change to hang on to it. I can work with nice. So my question is how do I get more interested in girly things like facebook, twitter, what other people are doing, what someone said about whoever, rumors, etc. Also, how do I stop getting frustrated about being asked the same question multiple times (ie: why do you love me, what would you do if we broke up) and being told I'm the one who never listens? *How do I become more superficial and into things like that?* lol
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Cyonan Pillar of the Community I have made 544 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined August 2015 I've received 539 likes	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 27, 2015 21:57:01 GMT -6 Post by Cyonan on Dec 27, 2015 21:57:01 GMT -6 Sounds like a standard case of self esteem issues. Which is basically the point of social media. Being able to pretend like large groups of people actually give a fuck about what you had for dinner last night. So my guess would be act like you give a fuck about that sort of thing? Either that or don't and just smile and nod your head when she goes on about whatever happened on FaceBook or Twitter.
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FraQ Pillar of the Community I have made 914 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined September 2015 I've received 993 likes	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 27, 2015 23:34:52 GMT -6 Post by FraQ on Dec 27, 2015 23:34:52 GMT -6
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OneWomanArmy The Monarchy Don't fuck with the Kingdom! I have made 2,533 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined September 2015 I've received 980 likes My gender is Female	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 27, 2015 23:51:03 GMT -6 via mobile Post by OneWomanArmy on Dec 27, 2015 23:51:03 GMT -6 I don't even know what to reply here.... lolol
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Deleted I have made 0 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined January 1970	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 28, 2015 20:59:13 GMT -6 Post by Deleted on Dec 28, 2015 20:59:13 GMT -6 And how do I convey interest in my responses to meaningless and repetitive I miss you's, what are you doing? I'm sorry I'm just relationship hating. I can't do it. All the touchy feelie....ewwww IS this normal for a guy to feel this way about a woman? I think I'm just going to end it.
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Deleted I have made 0 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined January 1970	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 29, 2015 1:29:37 GMT -6 Cknarf and OneWomanArmy like this Post by Deleted on Dec 29, 2015 1:29:37 GMT -6
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Cknarf Pillar of the Community Mr. President "I don't hate people. I just feel better when they aren't around." I have made 745 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined August 2015 I've received 714 likes My gender is Male	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 29, 2015 9:34:32 GMT -6 OneWomanArmy likes this Post by Cknarf on Dec 29, 2015 9:34:32 GMT -6 I don't even try to care about anything that is said, simply because I don't talk about things I give absolutely zero fucks about. I just nod my head yes or say things like "Sure babe, whatever you want." if I'm playing games. Sucks later on when she's like "You said you'd take me to [insert location]!" And then I deny everything.
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Deleted I have made 0 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined January 1970	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 29, 2015 13:10:32 GMT -6 Post by Deleted on Dec 29, 2015 13:10:32 GMT -6 Dec 29, 2015 9:34:32 GMT -6 Cknarf said: I just nod my head yes or say things like "Sure babe, whatever you want." if I'm playing games. Sucks later on when she's like "You said you'd take me to [insert location]!" And then I deny everything. God I love bachelorhood
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Deleted I have made 0 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined January 1970	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 29, 2015 13:13:57 GMT -6 Post by Deleted on Dec 29, 2015 13:13:57 GMT -6 Dec 29, 2015 13:10:32 GMT -6 @mybudgee said: Dec 29, 2015 9:34:32 GMT -6 Cknarf said: I just nod my head yes or say things like "Sure babe, whatever you want." if I'm playing games. Sucks later on when she's like "You said you'd take me to [insert location]!" And then I deny everything. God I love bachelorhood i say its overrated
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Deleted I have made 0 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined January 1970	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 29, 2015 13:23:46 GMT -6 Post by Deleted on Dec 29, 2015 13:23:46 GMT -6 Dec 29, 2015 13:13:57 GMT -6 @rakiatime said: Dec 29, 2015 13:10:32 GMT -6 @mybudgee said: God I love bachelorhood i say its overrated No way. Besides the CRUSHING loneliness every once in a while, there are so many pros: - Don't have to be dragged to festivals, concerts, malls, weird Tupperware parties or dinner at some couples' house - I clean the bathroom/kitchen when I decide it needs it - I can have a rootbeer float for breakfast - Toilet seat status is a non-issue - Go to Gym when I want/for as long as I want - Strip-club? Yes - Chivalry? Hilarious - Birthdays are always a blast - Never feel guilty for flirting - No in-laws in sight - I don't have to explain to anyone why "Hateful 8" is so violent
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Deleted I have made 0 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined January 1970	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 29, 2015 13:32:39 GMT -6 OneWomanArmy likes this Post by Deleted on Dec 29, 2015 13:32:39 GMT -6 Dec 29, 2015 13:23:46 GMT -6 @mybudgee said: Dec 29, 2015 13:13:57 GMT -6 @rakiatime said: i say its overrated No way. Besides the CRUSHING loneliness every once in a while, there are so many pros: - Don't have to be dragged to festivals, concerts, malls, weird Tupperware parties or dinner at some couples' house - I clean the bathroom/kitchen when I decide it needs it - I can have a rootbeer float for breakfast - Toilet seat status is a non-issue - Go to Gym when I want/for as long as I want - Strip-club? Yes - Chivalry? Hilarious - Birthdays are always a blast - Never feel guilty for flirting - No in-laws in sight - I don't have to explain to anyone why "Hateful 8" is so violent - neither do i - i pay someone to do that twice a week - i have regular beer for breakfast - i had 3 sisters growing up so the toilet seat has become a robotic movement by now - we have gym equipment, and usually use it together, its actually one of our favorite things to do as a couple - im not a strip club kind of guy, crowds, music and dim lighting give me a headache - being raised by my grandparents what you call chivalry i call being a 50s gentleman it just comes naturally - i hate my birthday, i actually havent celebrated one this decade - ditto - and again - seeing that is on my to do list so yeah, i havent changed one bit since getting married.........well other than my ego getting even bigger.....
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Deleted I have made 0 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined January 1970	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 30, 2015 4:37:52 GMT -6 via mobile Post by Deleted on Dec 30, 2015 4:37:52 GMT -6 Lol you must be in a relationship with another man. All my ex's would get jealous if I did anything without them because somehow I was always cheating. 5 min late....CHEATING! I think I'm on my last about thinking people are worth a fuck anymore. Anyone know how the internet works? Can I go be a hermit off grid and get internet without going through a corporation like comcast, AT&T, or alternative?
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OneWomanArmy The Monarchy Don't fuck with the Kingdom! I have made 2,533 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined September 2015 I've received 980 likes My gender is Female	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 30, 2015 5:09:23 GMT -6 via mobile Post by OneWomanArmy on Dec 30, 2015 5:09:23 GMT -6 Dec 30, 2015 4:37:52 GMT -6 @thebunz said: Lol you must be in a relationship with another man. All my ex's would get jealous if I did anything without them because somehow I was always cheating. 5 min late....CHEATING! I think I'm on my last about thinking people are worth a fuck anymore. Anyone know how the internet works? Can I go be a hermit off grid and get internet without going through a corporation like comcast, AT&T, or alternative? Did you search deliberately for clingy women or something? A real woman gives her man space and needs space herself.
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Deleted I have made 0 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined January 1970	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 30, 2015 5:15:09 GMT -6 via mobile Post by Deleted on Dec 30, 2015 5:15:09 GMT -6 Dec 30, 2015 5:09:23 GMT -6 OneWomanArmy said: Dec 30, 2015 4:37:52 GMT -6 @thebunz said: Lol you must be in a relationship with another man. All my ex's would get jealous if I did anything without them because somehow I was always cheating. 5 min late....CHEATING! I think I'm on my last about thinking people are worth a fuck anymore. Anyone know how the internet works? Can I go be a hermit off grid and get internet without going through a corporation like comcast, AT&T, or alternative? Did you search deliberately for clingy women or something? A real woman gives her man space and needs space herself. Nope just do the best with what cards life deals me. You eventually get to a point where you decide to cut your losses and stop spinning your wheels. Life's hard enough, sick of always dragging an anchor around. Me and the opposite sex just don't seem to have similar interests.
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Cyonan Pillar of the Community I have made 544 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined August 2015 I've received 539 likes	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 30, 2015 6:16:57 GMT -6 OneWomanArmy likes this Post by Cyonan on Dec 30, 2015 6:16:57 GMT -6 Dec 30, 2015 4:37:52 GMT -6 @thebunz said: Lol you must be in a relationship with another man. All my ex's would get jealous if I did anything without them because somehow I was always cheating. 5 min late....CHEATING! I think I'm on my last about thinking people are worth a fuck anymore. Anyone know how the internet works? Can I go be a hermit off grid and get internet without going through a corporation like comcast, AT&T, or alternative? You just find terrible women. I've never had to deal with GFs not "letting" me do most of the stuff on that list. Maybe not strip clubs, but it's not like I visit those anyway. If she makes you feel like you've got an anchor tied to you, then she isn't the right girl for you.
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Deleted I have made 0 posts Right now I'm Offline I joined January 1970	How can I care more about what my girlfriend talks about? Dec 30, 2015 6:17:39 GMT -6 Post by Deleted on Dec 30, 2015 6:17:39 GMT -6 Dec 30, 2015 4:37:52 GMT -6 @thebunz said: Lol you must be in a relationship with another man. All my ex's would get jealous if I did anything without them because somehow I was always cheating. 5 min late....CHEATING! I think I'm on my last about thinking people are worth a fuck anymore. Anyone know how the internet works? Can I go be a hermit off grid and get internet without going through a corporation like comcast, AT&T, or alternative? This shite is so meta, I don't even ... a true hermit doesn't have internet! Why do you need it anyway when you're sick of superficial society? What's up, Bunz? Are you burnt out? What do you want? What are your interests? Maybe try to communicate them instead of getting bored to death by your girlfriend (or other people)?
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