Fuck, Jorji, this is why I refuse to discuss gender politics on the internet.
Now I feel obligated address a few points.
I'm 80% in agreement with PJW (I'm like 60% in agreement with Sargon). This percentage has been unprecedented, so I should defend him. His career as political reporter and commentator has been great, and he entered the social aspects in the last two years. About Syria, EU refugee Crisis, Saudi Arabia, Ukraine, etc. His concerns about sexual behaviour, 3rd wave feminism, crisis in Europe, post-modern and popular culture is true and if certain policies won't be utilized anytime soon,
I am not familiar with any of his other work. I would hope that all reporting was based in fact; and that his commentary on other issues has been less biased than the videos which you posted above, or at least acknowledges that bias and/or presents alternative viewpoints for consideration. Of note, his concerns, which I will not attempt to invalidate, because I don't seek to tell other people that what they feel is inherently wrong, cannot be "true" by definition. They are his opinions, to which he is very much entitled, as much I may believe they are misled. They are in no way fact, should not be construed as such, and, therefore, can neither be true nor untrue. That is what distinguishes commentary from a factual report.
Here are some things to consider while weighing his expressed opinions against your own, and against what you perceive and judge to be happening in the world around you:
Others' sexual behavior is nobody's fucking business (see what I did there?). I know you're a student of history and all, but the historical record doesn't contain full documentation of commonplace public events, or even all perspectives of well documented landmark events which occurred, let alone what happened in the privacy of individuals' bedrooms. We have very little basis of knowledge of how greatly current sexual behavior (which is also very much subject to self-report bias and therefore difficult to quantify despite a plethora of current research initiatives) deviates from what humans have done in the past, nor what effect it has on society as a whole.
People have been having sex since humanity came into existence. That's how we got here. I don't foresee it stopping. Prostitution is referred to as "the oldest profession" with good reason. There is a long tradition among homo sapiens of seeking sexual encounters which do not necessarily result in procreation and in seeking sexual gratification outside of a defined socially documented relationship. And there is debate as to why certain conventions came along. There are excellent arguments for a biological basis for monogamy (along with biological bases for seeking sexual experiences outside of that monogamous relationship), just as their are a political/religious underpinnings for the same. Is there an objective reason for frowning upon the use of contraception in some segments of the global population? Absolutely not. It could be said that it discourages premarital sex, which helps to ensure a man will not be cuckolded. It could be said that it helps to establish a bond between a couple with a shared unique and intimate experience. It could said that it helps a group to multiply its followers by encouraging sexual congress which produces a child who will be raised in a way congruent to that group's ideology. It could also be said that it is to enforce dominion over a subset of that group, for which the consequences of engaging in sexual congress may be more readily apparent. None of these arguments is right or wrong. I have opinions about things like access to contraception, but I can't say why certain current attitudes exist or that they are better or worse than historical attitudes around contraception in the past. I can point to evidence that access to contraception has changed statistics around certain phenomena like teenage pregnancy. But the decline of teen pregnancy over all doesn't mean that for a certain couple that hole someone poked in a condom won't change both of their lives forever and should a third life become a part of theirs won't affect a new generation as well.
I will not discuss 3rd wave feminism except to say that the behavior of a few crazy people should not be taken as representative of a philosophical/political movement (just as we would not consider ISIS to be representative of all of Islam), and it certainly should be considered representative of all people who have matching genitalia.
I don't know to what exactly "crisis in Europe" refers. There's a lot of bad shit happening: economic decline, refugee influx., infighting among member states, and political discord within some countries, so I'm not sure which is of greatest concern here.
Finally, postmodern and popular culture are not inherently vulgar. You may not like them, but there is nothing detrimental to society about them. You know what drives me nuts? The use of "they/their" as a gender neutral pronoun and the decline of the subjunctive tense. But if I had my way, everyone would mind his or her
ps and
qs as if his or her life were dependent upon it. But that particular sentence is a mouthful and I recognize that my grammatical rectitude is stodgy and antiquated. You know what's great? The contraction. And that's the result of the evolution of language. Language, like culture, is not static but evolves to meet the needs of the citizenry. I miss the tradition of the Romantic symphony as much as you, but we have plenty of those around, the best examples of which have survived. Crappy symphonies are rarely played by orchestras. There's no need to reinvent the wheel. Not every composer is Dvorak, and we wouldn't like if they all were. And it's not as if all orchestral tradition has died. A man who plays in my volunteer symphony writes what I believe to be incredible, current orchestral music. We recently performed one of his compositions and it was exquisite. There are plenty of talented, active composers out there right now. Postmodernism brought us Phillip Glass, Kurt Vonnegut, Rem Koolhaas, and Andy Warhol, to hit some big names. I don't like John Cage's work, or Marcel Duchamp's, but I appreciate the statements they made in their work and what they have contributed to the artistic landscape of our time. Postmodernism remains challenging for me to wrap my head around at times, but that's what people said about Impressionism and Romanticism when those movements emerged as well. And what is popular is not necessarily bad. Mozart's operas enjoyed contemporary popularity, as did Shakespeare's plays, and we recognize those popular artists to be pinnacles of their genres. Not every artist is as miserable as Van Gogh, receiving no recognition in their lifetimes. And you know what? I like Lady Gaga. She's a talented singer. Lovely voice. Listen to her duet with Tony Bennett of "That's Why the Lady is a Tramp," you might even like it.
The heat death of the universe is also imminent.
I am interested in the happenings and demarcations that have helped us reach v2.2, though. I bet there's some disagreement as to where we are in the continuum of Modern Civilization.
I've read a lot of smutty romance novels. That doesn't make me an expert on sex.
One can find literature out there to support any view point. Even the most rigorous experiments following the scientific method are subject to bias. What matters more than the quantity of study is the quality of it and the diversity within it.
But one can find evidence of meddling here and there.
I think it's worth noting, that a hipster is a young person who engages in anachronistic and irritating behavior (like wearing a trilby, or drinking rootbeer brewed only with organic sassafrass root made in the traditional method, or listening to only live, "authentic" recordings of 1920s AfroAsiatic folk music) because s/he thinks it impresses others. A hipster is not some one who has an opinion which differs from yours.
"Feminism doesn’t really have a philosophy. It’s barely even an ideology. It’s mostly just a series of temper tantrums thrown by a small, privileged minority. And, unless it changes, it will soon be irrelevant. " - David French
You. Don't feed the bears.
I love you very much, but you're throwing gasoline on that gender politics fire I never wanted lit in the first place.
And in conclusion, this is a politics forum discussion, not lobby discussion, so I request that it desist, lest it attract the attention of our glorious and revered mods.
Now then, on topic. What's your favorite underwear color?
I prefer black. Classic and flattering. Red seems too attention getting and intentionally risque. If I'm going to go for color, purple is wear I'm leaning now. Less expected and makes more of a statement than pink or light blue.