I have a question:

play "hard to get" or no?

Actually, thinking about it more, if there's a "question you've always wanted to ask men or women" thread, and both men and women in the thread gather there, the important point is they share that kind of mentality, i.e., hover to an internet forum to a "question you've always wanted to ask men or women" thread.

So it's kind of really the "Tsundere men and women" thread when you think about it haha. =-)

No one gathers here any more.

We banned all of them.

Everyone you see here is a collection of pre-recorded responses to various circumstances we predicted a newcomer might find themselves in.

…Um.. well… yeah.. I was thinking it’s like the “Tsundere” thread because if it weren’t Tsundere then it wouldn’t be “Questions you’ve always wanted to ask,” they would of just asked them. There is no always wanted.

Which isn’t to say being Tsundere is somehow bad or something…

I didn’t know that would cause such an eruption of emotion but it was really intended just to be a kind of like harmless sorta silly comment. I’m sorry if I offended anyone. In fact, I'm sure like plenty of people, Tsundere or not or whatever have "always wanted" things going on perhaps?? It's like I say just kinda random sort of thought but I didn't expect it would be a negative thing one way or another...

Oh ok, I thought it kind of made sense though...

I think I was really just trying to encourage the notion that men and women who wanted to go to a forum thread which is "questions you've always wanted to ask men or women" would attract a particular kind of man or woman, and one important thing is that then the answers or questions would be of a select group and not necessarily as like most men or women generally..

In fact in most, kind of perhaps somewhat typical dating situations it seems to me people aren't really encouraged to ask anything of men or women, one way or another,

And anyway, there's a lot of anime stuff around so I guess maybe I was just trying to draw the Tsundere concept in somehow....

Sorry, maybe that's still confusing, it was intended to be positive and affirming though =-)

Ok so maybe that's still confusing lol sorry. Anyway if no one's really offended or anything that's cool. =-)

Edit: Well as to muscularity I say it is commonly portrayed but it's not only form of desire.... do not want to offend people (I apologize if have done so!) who are very muscular tis quite fine really! It just seemed like it would be ok to express that people are pretty happy with the other options... since it not commonly portrayed as desirable and yet some/many are that way and people do exist that as I say are pretty happy with other options...

Er, I guess you could say I came across one of these things somewhere else awhile ago and found it very illuminating.. and yet one of the more important realizations wasn't, oh now I know this thing that this person never told me, it was that I had connected more with those people who were willing to break the boundaries and that was the most important thing. It was simply that these people were all gathering together to discuss them, and that these people all kind of shared their own interests just by willing to breakdown traditional boundaries, I guess, and that it was an important thing was that they were of a shared attitude not necessarily (though not precluding) as a way to learn factoids they were going to use as consideration for other men and women out there in the general sense, who may or may not still have somewhat of a strong attachment to more conventional norms.

Are you asking if we play hard to get, or if we think you should? 

I've never played hard to get. If I'm being evasive, it's because I'm not interested but I'm scared of hurting someone's feelings. 

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Generating default response:

I see.

That's an interesting assumption, but not an accurate one. 

I wasn't referring to lying for someone else's benefit, I was referring to avoiding the question in the first place for my own. 

Could add "You're not wrong." to the list of default responses too, for the sake of variety.