Well Rakia, I just mean that as long as the two people loves each other, I don't see anything wrong with experimenting or trying things out. If that's what we're talking about. But it's all with consent.

my sister passes by, reads the thread and says "men today are so bad that they turned me gay"....

Experimentation is fine. I did a lot of that at 15 years old because I trusted the guy I was with completely. Porn still existed, but it wasn't viewed as reality. These days it seems that young people view the fantasy as a reality and some form the opinion that treating girls like animals is okay - they see it everywhere. Standards are lower now. Girls do what is expected of them.

Reezy you chump change motherfucker

The answer to both questions is at an age where I was way too impressionable to ever want to talk about it again.

As to, guys treat girls like animals, that's so backwards it's scary. It's women, and it always has been, that determine if, when, how, and where sex happens. It always will be. Women will always have control over this, and to pretend any guy can treat a girl in a way she doesn't want to be treated without maddog game is lulzworthy. They don't do what guys want them to, otherwise there would be more laid orbiters.

And, to clarify, I'm talking about young children here. Impressionable and vulnerable.

Could someone do such a thing to me now I'm in my thirties? Fuck no! I wouldn't take shit from any guy.

Well, I'll admit I have put pressure on my partners for certain things occasionally even when refused at first.

But at the same time I have done things I didn't want to do for those very same people. So idk. It always seemed fair at the time.

I can't help it. I may be an "adult" but I'm as pure as snow.

I was on a train once that had a bunch of high school students on. Must have been about 14 or so years old. These two lads were sitting at the table opposite me talking, quite loudly, about spit roasting one of their fellow students. And I can assure you they were quite serious.

Just an example of how attitudes seem to have changed in recent times.