Yeah, I'm sure this actually happened.

thanks. i'm actually only one that never got to meet or known about any cousins i had. i don't get to hear about them that often. i lost my cousin a year ago, suicide by gun. he.. shot himself in head. and that was only cousin i knew since he was little. it sucks to lose a person like that. even a family member who is very close to you.

i lost too much in my uncles part. lost first uncle in 1997, lost second in 2005. and i lost my first childhood friend and would-have been my first boyfriend in 2013. four years ago. of course, it took me long time to recover from loss of my only friend i was so close to. i lived in a dark period. and now i'm going to eventually lose both of my past family members soon to things such as natural causes or something else.

Link: www.komonews.com/news/local/Man-killed-in-crash-after-attempted-robbery-at-barista-stand-220345391.html

Because "Joesiah" "crashed" their "car" into a "concrete wall" after hitting a "patch of black ice".

Korra.. venting thread is not for liars... people are not posting lies there if that's what you mean.

I try being open minded about this sort of thread. Who knows if the person is lying or trying to get some attention, sometimes even that type of people goes through some shit and needs a hug to go through the day.

I'm not aware about what Cassandra/Korra did in the past, as I wasn't there when it happened. I reacted mostly on the moment only.

most of members here don't like what i did in past, it was long time ago. they hadn't even let it go. so it's pointless to argue or to explain.
this thread is here because of terrible accident that happened to my cousin yesterday.

I've done shitty things as well, but I don't try making my whole life about it. Sometimes, moving on is the best thing to do. When you see people are tired of you, try moving elsewhere for a while. Things changes, grudges fade away with time. Most important thing to do is to forgive yourself for your past sins and start on a new leaf. This also means trying to correct what pissed them off in the first place. Then again, as much as we human beings try to change sometimes, it's never enough for some of our peers. Best thing I can say when this happens: let it go. Easier said than done, I know. It takes time sometimes, but once the issue is dealt with, you're feeling a lot better. Sure, you could face the problems head on and break a brick wall along the way... still sometimes, ignoring some stuff is the better solution.